They used to be important to a person's childhood.
It seems today if people don't like something about one parent, they can just say they got it from "the other." I feel I am different from both parents and am not sure the kind of nurseries my Asian mom had, but I like old-fashioned European things a lot. That I like old-fashioned European things would be seen as impressive or normal, but now I feel people would say I'm nothing tho they don't care about anything. They would say I don't deserve it and it's not for me and not for an okay cause of this. They just think I'm bad.